Friday, July 5, 2013

What If? A Blog for SuddenlyFem by CiCi Kitten


What if?

What if the world was different?

What if we were different?

What if the world was more accepting of our community?

What if we were more accepting of ourselves?

What if we started when we were younger?

What if we were thinner? Or taller?  Or prettier?

What if a guy in a dress was thought of no differently than a girl in jeans?



What if department stores routinely carried stylish shoes in size 13?

What if life as a tgirl wasn’t so complicated?

What if sex as a tgirl wasn’t so complicated?

What if the world was more tolerant of the diversity and individuality within our community?

What if our community was more tolerant of the diversity and individuality within our community?


What if your first time out wasn’t so scary?

What if your 100th time out wasn’t so scary?

What if you actually went out?

What if cops, courts, and Congress didn’t think of us as second-class citizens?

What if your wife was more accepting?

What if your friends thought you were cool any way?

What if your kids just thought you were weirder than they already thought?  (And let’s face it, they thought you were pretty weird to start with.)

What if your make up was better?

What if surgery was cheaper?

What if hormones had fewer side effects?

What if guys didn’t cancel at the last minute?

What if the Internet had never been invented?

What if junior high wasn’t so painful?

What if you had accepted that invitation all those years ago?

What if gender indicators on standard forms had more than two boxes to check?

What if the world is actually more accepting than we believe it to be?

What if we’re not giving our loved ones enough credit?

What if all those wonderful stories of crossdressers revealing themselves to their friends and getting a positive response aren’t the exception.. but the new rule?

What if we’re further along than we think?

What if we’re just all specks of dust riding on a bigger speck of dust through a cloud of millions of specks of dust -- and nothing that we do matters?

What if our fate is really our in our own hands?

And perhaps most importantly, what if the fate of a 12-year-old gender fluid kid growing up right now in a small town in the Deep South is in our hands?

For the past few years, I’ve been going to concerts and Broadway shows as CiCi with a friend of mine. Recently, we attended a show and the band led us in a sing-along of a popular song.  

“Now just the women!” the lead singer called out.  And the women sang.

“Now just the men!” he said.  And the men sang.

I know that in the scheme of things this is not that big a deal.  But i’m still waiting for my group to be called.

Take care out there.

Be safe. Be smart. Be sexy.

xoxo,
CiCi





50 comments:

SunShine said...

What if...CiCi wasn't out there for inspiration and an honest open look at things from all angles. You hit a chord for all of us. You aren't the dorky guy in the back...you are unique and wonderful in your uniqueness! You are you no matter what the scary parts are...you give us hope and an optimistic view of life as a cd/tv/tgirl and our vanilla world. What if there was no CiCi. The world would be the lesser for it.

FLSunShine

Anonymous said...

CiCi, once again you are right on the money and an inspiration! It makes me want to laugh and cry at the same time. Thank you, I don't feel as alone.

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I share in Danielle tears with a smile.
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Thank you.

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Robyn said...

"What if a guy in a dress was looked at no differently than a woman in jeans"... I've always thought of that one. It's actually something that a cross dresser can easily throw in a woman's face; there was a time when women in pants of any kind was considered just wrong, and those women pretty much said "Fuck you!" to society's face. How is a male-to-female cross dresser any different?

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I would really love to meet you. Im in rancho and would like to meet you for a drink, lunch dinner, or what ever you care to do. I find you extremely sexy and enjoy all your pictures on flickr. I have not posted any due to my business. But if your interested in seeing pics of me in my lingerie, let me know and I will email some to you. my email is teriheaven@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

"What if" How those words can ring a different sound when you're trying to be that inner person. That person that wants acceptance from their spouse. What if' isn't just two small words, it's a statement of fact over fiction. I have seen programs depicting crossdressers being arrested by police and those individuals were looking for sex and paid the price. But they also looked more like scags than crossdressers. I have met a (none personally) buch of girls online and we are good friends there. Cici has hit a note that should be sent to our senators and congress(man/woman).

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To quote the great John Lennon"Imagine"

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