Thursday, April 30, 2009

Crossdresser.com, The Crossdressing Superstore Presents: Taking a Walk with Wild Side Girls ~By CiCi Kitten

It’s probably the most well-known tg-themed song of all time. Lou Reed’s “Take A Walk on the Wild Side” is one of the most enduring songs of its era. The song reached #16 on the U.S. Billboard Hot 100, and #10 in the UK. Its bass line is infectious. The sax work is legendary. And then there are the girls. The tgirls described in the lyrics. I assumed they were based on someone real, but I thought they’d been fictionalized. After all, the song does play as a kind of 60’s Bohemian fairy tale. So I never realized just how real these characters were.

So here’s a glimpse into the lives of Holly, Candy, and Jackie. They were all members of Andy Warhol’s FACTORY. They starred in many of his films and, for a brief time, they hung out with some of the coolest people on the planet. No, wait. Check that. They were some of the coolest people on the planet!

(NOTE: This is just some brief info, but you can find more about any of these girls, Andy Warhol, the Factory, or Lou Reed on the internet!)

As the song says, Holly Woodlawn came from Miami, F-L-A. And hitchhiked her way across the USA. She was born Haroldo Santiago Franceschi Rodriguez Danhakl in Puerto Rico in 1946. (She adopted the name Holly as a tribute to the lead role in “Breakfast at Tiffany’s.”) She started out in stage plays – some of them written by fellow Wild Sider, Jackie Curtis. But she later went on to star in several Warhol films including “Trash” and “Women in Revolt” – a spoof of the women’s lib movement.

Holly had some trouble with the law in the ‘70’s including an arrest for impersonating the wife of the French Ambassador to the United States. But most of her later years have been spent performing in cabaret shows or in cameo screen appearances, as in “Billy’s Hollywood Screen Kiss.” Her autobiography, “A Low Life in High Heels” was published in 1991, and, always up on the latest trends, Holly has her own MySpace page!

Candy did indeed come from out on the Island (Long Island). In the backroom she was everybody's darlin' – in fact, that was her name, Candy Darling. Candy was born James Lawrence Slattery in Forest Hills, NY in ’46 or ’48 depending on which source you trust. She grew up a fan of old movies on television and learned to imitate stars like Joan Bennett and Kim Novak. She met Andy Warhol through Jackie Curtis, and he soon cast her in such films as “Flesh” and then the lead role in, “Women in Revolt.” Other non-Warhol associated films included working opposite Jane Fonda in “Klute” and opposite Sophia Loren in “Lady Liberty.” Candy campaigned hard for the lead role in “Myra Breckinridge,” but that role ultimately went to Raquel Welch.

On stage, Candy performed in the Tennessee Williams’ play, “Small Craft Warnings” at the invitation of Williams himself!

Sadly, Candy died of leukemia in 1974 at about age 29. In addition to her “role” in “Take a Walk on the Wild Side,” she is also the subject of the Velvet Underground’s song, “Candy Says.” Her biography, “My Face for the World to See,” was published in 1992.

Perhaps Jackie Curtis thought she was James Dean for a day (she did sometimes perform as a man in a James Dean persona), but it appears she had a pretty full life just being herself. Born John Holder Jr. in New York City in 1947, Jackie went on to become a noted poet, playwright, and film star. “Jackie Curtis is not a drag queen,” said Andy Warhol. “Jackie is an artist. A pioneer without a frontier.”

Jackie began her life in theatre as an actor at age 17 but quickly began writing her own plays – often with transgendered themes. Her plays often featured famous transsexuals including sister Wild Siders, Candy Darling and Holly Woodlawn. She appeared alongside these girls in Warhol’s films, “Flesh” and “Women in Revolt.” Her play “Glamour, Glory, and Gold” featured a young Robert DeNiro in his first stage appearance!

Sadly, the drug addiction hinted at in “Wild Side” took its toll on Jackie over the years – eventually leading to her death in 1985. But she left behind a legacy of stagework, filmwork and style. Jackie’s use of glitter in her makeup predated the glam movement. And her penchant for ripped dresses and torn stockings predated the punks – and still turns heads on street corners and fashion runways today. A film based on Jackie’s life, “Superstar in a Housedress” was released in 2004.

Others mentioned in the song include, “Sugar Plum Fairy” – an actor named Joe Campbell. And "Little Joe" Dallesandro who “never once gave it away.” Little Joe was a bi actor/model who posed for many famous photographers. That's his crotch on the cover of The Rolling Stones' album Sticky Fingers!

I guess I’ve always been fascinated by the 60’s and the Warhol factory, and, particularly by the openness of the gay and transgendered artists, models, musicians, and actors who collaborated on so many cutting-edge and innovative artistic endeavors. Of course, they were just having fun. Pushing people’s buttons. Challenging social and political conventions.

But without them, where would we be now?

Take care out there.
Be safe. Be smart. Be sexy.
xoxo,
CiCi

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Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Crossdresser.com, the Crossdressing Superstore Presents: The ABC's of TV/CD's! ~By CiCi Kitten


For the most part, I've tried to avoid the issue of labels. In one of my earlier blogs, "Blurry," I wrote about how much I dislike labels like gay or straight. To me, in a world where gender identity and sexual preferences are so varied, it's hard to classify anyone.

But there are certain terms used in our community that is often confusing to outsiders or to newcomers to the scene. And that confusion only gets worse in online conversations where abbreviations are tossed around like panties at a lingerie party. These are abbreviations like CD, TV, TG, TS, and GG! GG seems to be the most confusing. And, omg, if you start throwing all of those deliciously androgynous people into the mix, the limits of language really become apparent and the whole thing just goes off the rails.

To be honest, I'm not even sure if I'm using the terms below correctly. But, if not, what the heck? Perhaps it will start a lively debate! In fact, if you disagree with any of my "definitions" below, please let me know! I stand by none of them. And I continue to do my best to embrace people of all genders - regardless of how they decide to present themselves...

CD is a cross dresser. To me, that's someone who was born male, but from time to time enjoys dressing in clothes typically associated with women. This can mean anything from heels to hosiery to wigs and makeup. Some guys enjoy nothing more than wearing girls' panties. Others go all the way to professional makeovers, manicures and pedicures, and custom tailored outfits. So the term CD or crossdresser covers a lot of territory.

TV is a transvestite. There's really not much difference between a CD and a TV. Both are born men and both dress to some degree in feminine attire. But TV's generally tend to go all out. Head to toe femininity. Shaved or waxed bodies. And usually, a more "polished" feminine presentation. The other difference for me is that many cd's never go out. That's where the term closet cross dresser comes from. (But I've never heard of a closet transvestite.) To me, TV's go out. They go to parties with other TV's, meet for dates, and hit the clubs and drag shows. CD's can and often do the same. But in my head, TV's are much more out and active in the scene.

TS people are going through some kind of transformation that includes outside influences such as hormones or surgery. To this group (both M2F and F2M), merely dressing in the attire of a man or woman isn't enough. TS people want to take on the physical characteristics of their desired gender. They may take hormones, undergo certain cosmetic surgeries, or go all the way to genital surgery that actually changes the physicality of their sex organs.

Trannies or cross dressers that have decided to live in girl mode full time are also often referred to as transsexuals. But they are usually called pre-op transsexuals. As you might expect, not all pre-op transsexuals ever make it to the "op" stage. They never go through with the surgery for either financial or emotional reasons. But they're still considered pre-op.

TG is a transgendered person. This is the broadest term for this entire category of people. TG can mean either a person born male who sometimes presents as a female. Or vice versa - a person born female who sometimes presents as male. So, by definition, this category includes TV, CD and TS people. Because it is so broad and all-encompassing, "transgender" is often the term used in groups and associations of social, cultural, and political significance... as in LBGT groups: Lesbian, Bisexual, Gay, and Transgendered.

GG people are genetic girls. These are people who are born with the physical characteristics of girls or women and have remained so. The term is usually used in cd circles because sexual preferences are so varied in our world. Some cd girls prefer dating men, some prefer dating other cd's, and some prefer dating gg's (or genetic girls). You'll often find this abbreviation in chat rooms where dating is discussed, as in the following:

TGirl 1
I was out with a really cute girl the other night.

TGirl 2
Oh really? Was she TV or GG?

In this instance, Tgirl2 wants to know if TGirl 1 was out with a genetic girl or a transgendered girl.

M2F and F2M are abbreviations for transformative experiences. M2F people are transforming in some way from male to female. F2M people are transforming from women to men. This is a very broad category that includes the very casual crossdresser as well as the surgically altered transsexual. So the term doesn't indicate the degree of the transformation, it only communicates the direction.

Of course, many transgendered people don't agree with the idea that they were ever anything other than the gender they feel inside -- regardless of the physical characteristics that they were born with. So to them, these kinds of classifications (M2F or F2M) can be insulting or offensive.

I sat in on a panel discussion with a group of transgendered college students. And it's amazing how many every day things cause them great stress - from deciding which public restroom to use to checking off "gender" on any application or institutional form. Every form has two choices: M or F. But many of these kids don't identify as either. They want a third classification. Or at least an open box in which to check, "Other." To them, terms like M2F or F2M are far too limiting to truly express the fluid nature of their gender.

ME is the two-letter term I like to use to refer to myself. You can call me whatever you like. TG, TV, CD. I'm all of those things. You can also call me gay or straight or bi. I'm all of those things as well. (You can even call me a lesbian if you like.) But, in the end, I'm still ME. I always was ME. And I always will be ME.

Take care out there!
Be safe. Be smart. Be sexy.
xoxo,
CiCi

Crossdresser.com Releases their Newest Fashion Shoot Video with Cassandra Fever

CrossDresser.com, the Cross Dressing Superstore, Reveals all new fashions in a brand new Video!

(1888PressRelease) April 10, 2009 - Classic short miniskirts and lots of stretch satin is a staple in the cross dressing world of fashion. Suddenly Fem™ is leading the way into the crossdressing fashion frontier with stylish videos highlighting their best fashions.The newest video was shot in Los Angeles, CA and features Actor, Drag Performer and model Cassandra Fever along with narration and direction by Fem Fashion Expert Gina Lance. Bright lighting, hot poses and exciting camera angles are the basis of this new Promotional video. The range of fashions covered are Short satin dresses, Stretch snakeskin A-Line dresses, stretch satin skirts, Black mini dresses and the ever popular Satin maid outfit with a new shorter sleeve length. Customers, as well as curious onlookers will enjoy the glitz and glamour of the Classic cross dress collection pieces.The video is available at Crossdresser.com’s website (http://www.crossdresser.com/) and on youtube.com under a search for Suddenly Fem.Suddenly fem plans to offer new videos of their fashion collections 3 – 4 times per year using different talented transgender performers.About Suddenly Fem Suddenly Fem manufacturers and designs virtually all of their products especially for crossdressers, transvestites and drag queens. All products are designed to perfectly fit men who cross dress. Each product—wigs, silicone breast forms, dresses, hormone supplements, necklaces, bracelets, clip earrings and even panties—has been hand picked and designed by the Suddenly Fem staff. Renowned for excellent customer service, hard-to-beat prices, as well as quality, fashionable, feminine attire, SuddenlyFem is the one-stop online site for the crossdresser community.

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Crossdresser.com: The Next Stage in the Evolution of Feminine Clothing and Lingerie! Presents...

View Our New, Slick Photoshoot Video Starring the Lovely and Talented Cassandra Fever!